Can you imagine? Can you imagine a world without pre-marital sex. I sat one day pondering what our world would have felt like or looked like if nothing like that ever existed. These are my findings from my thoughts.



 1. No STD.
 Can you imagine our world without STD. There will be nothing like John infected me with blablabla. We might have had little cases of HIV. Most people wouldn't have to fight each other because of them.

 I just lost a close relative to AIDS recently and honestly sex is not worth it. It is not worth the pain and anguish we felt letting go of such a sweet lovely promising lady.  Till we meet again lovely sis (RIP).

Some of these veneral diseases do not have symptoms for a very long time and renders some people impotent and childless in marriage. Yes, they say use condoms but why will I have to leave my life to the mercy of a mere little rubber. If you have ever had unprotected sex before and you are to go for a HIV test, you know how scared you feel. You can never tell if the next lady you will be with is infected.

 2.  Fewer disappointments
 For men it wouldn't be a big deal. They can  have sex with any woman without even feeling a thing for her. But for women they have sex with only people they feel a connection with, Sex is emotional for us. It is a spiritual worship. It is mental. Maybe we wouldn't have had the number of broken women we have now.

  When sex has been involved in a relationship and it is broken the pain is greater and has more impact on the person. It will be easy to let go and move on from a bad relationship when sex is not involved. You know there are soul ties actually formed during sex. When you have sex with someone you take a part of them with you whether you like it or not. Just imagine you being joined with all the cute guys and ladies you have ever had sex with. *coversface*.

Some of us will be having a long chain of men and women attached to us.

 3. No BABY MAMA, BABY DADDY drama.

 Just imagine the rate of baby mama's we are beginning to have, if there was nothing like sex may be we all would have been married before having kids.  We would have fewer kids from single parents. Every child needs a complete family to function well with, every father has a great influence on the child so does every mother.

 You know some say a woman can be everything to a child but a woman can never be a man or do the job of a father in the life of the child. We will pay with great pains the vacuums we are creating with single parenting.

  I did a research on single parenting and the effects on children's academic performance and I can say that it is not advisable to follow the trend. But the more we do married peoples stuff the more we create incomplete families.

 4.  No need for Abortion. 

You know if there was nothing like sex we wouldn't be talking about unwanted pregnancies and unwanted babies. Every child will be seen as accepted and loved.  We all will be given a chance to live from birth.

 We all have to right to be given birth to.  Abortion is not only dangerous health wise, it leaves a psychological vacuum on the mother.

Finally, with all these said I know I wouldn't be able to change the world but you reading this can change a lot of things. You can change you and in turn change your world.

True love waits, Yes it does.

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