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Mr Workaholic source

6. MR CAREER. Being career driven can be a very good thing but not finding a meeting point between your career and relationship is terrible. Ladies, guys who are career driven are workaholics. Every other thing comes second after their career. They are always wanting to climb up one career ladder or the other. 

They are the kind of guys who will tell you to wait for them to become the CEO of their company before you both get married. They will work at the office and still take the remaining work home. They always talk about their jobs or business so much that you both rarely know stuffs about each other. They are ready to sacrifice their relationship, marriage or even family for their career. They are the kind of guys who will be so busy that you will have to remind them to check on you.

You always beg for their attention. source

              
 For these guys there is never any time for fun activities because to them FUN IS WORK AND WORK IS FUN. Their pads or laptops are their best companions, they are always typing away. Being romantic is never in their dictionaries, they believe that working hard is enough. I remember the movie 'FLOWER GIRL BY MICHELLE BELLO' where Chris Attoh (Umar) was a perfect description of a MR CAREER and Damilola Adegbite (Kemi) a love crazy lady, who was waiting for him to make a serious commitment to her. Well, he never did.
 Every motive and idea for them has to be CAREER DRIVEN. They are extremely selfish. They are married to their jobs, they do not have time for their spouse.


Can you live with a man who puts his work before you and your family?. Can you live with a man who does not even communicate with you?. He's always on one project or the other, saving the world. He will never be around for you and your children. Prepare to be lonely, if you decide to marry such man.

You just can't compete with his career. source

MR CAREER, has only one true love and family. HIS WORK.


7. MR MONEY-IS-EVERYTHING. This kind of guy is so loaded with cash, money is not his problem. He is rich and successful. The problem with these kind of men is that they feel that money is all that a woman wants in a relationship. Every lady wants gifts and fine things. I mean, who does not want those fine-fine stuff, but you need more than that. They say that money solves a lot of problems, but there are so many aspects of relationship that money cannot take care of.



Mr money just doesn't see the need for companionship, intimacy, friendship and understanding. He believes that every part of your relationship will work out once there is CASH FLOW. He tries to use his money to buy you over all the time. You could be feeling down and at that point you need some dose of encouragement and moral support. Instead of talking to you or encouraging you, he will  give you money or buy you some expensive stuffs. You could be so tired and frustrated about the relationship and he gives you more money to make you feel better.


This kind of guy will provide you all the comfort of life but he will not give you care, love and affection that you need. The only language he speaks is money. Ladies, we all want a man who has our back all the time, who we can share life's moments with. Through the hurts and laughter of life. Who will hold your hands and make a joke out of nothing. We need friendship.


MR MONEY, feels money can solve your emotional needs. It surely cannot do that.

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