Source Abusive relationships  can be difficult to spot but will share a few helpful tips that will help both the abused and a friend or relative to the abused to know they are in for danger. Abusive relationships can manifest in different forms either physical, emotional, financial or sexual.  Your friend or sister or daughter who is being abused may find it very difficult to speak up but with these tips i will share here you will be able to identify an abusive relationship.

Every relationship is dynamic, because the two people involved are different. It is not about finding the right person, its about imperfect people who know their weaknesses and are working on themselves to make themselves better. 

I hereby present to you UNHEALTHY WOMEN. If you are new to our UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP SERIES, click HERE. A lot of men have been waiting for this so here, you have it. Don't forget to spread the word. This might Just be the word that someone needs to make a change in their relationship.

	Laraba

 This post was originally published on Achenyo's blog. She is a wonderful blogger, am actually a huge fan. To view her blog click HERE. This post actually relates to our UNHEALTHY MEN SERIES. ENJOY THIS HILARIOUS POST. Thank me later.


"Is it the guy that called you that day that his airtime finished that you're going to see?" Lucy asks me.

I'm concentrating so hard on putting my eye liner on my eyelids that I don't answer but make a sound in my throat that sounds like a yes. In the mirror I can see she smiles momentarily.

"Lara, you have changed o. Before I'll beg you to hang out with me, now, you're going on a date.”

I laugh. "Ha, Lulu, you know how it is na" I slip into my jeans; it looks like I've added some weight as I struggle to get it past my hips. "Popsie called me last night and said I should come to Lagos for prayers"

"Again?" Lucy rolls her eyes.

HELLO SWEETHEARTS, how have you been? I know you have been great and healthy. Thank God you are alive to read this post. I know i have not been so consistent with my posts on this blog. Thank God for you.
Please don't be angry with me, (E ma binu). I have just had a lot going on around me. Gradually am settling and adjusting to life generally. So be ready to hear more from me OK!!!.

Today's post is about men that are unhealthy for us ladies. Some of us have met these kind of men, some are dating them, some are engaged to them, you are even about to get married to one of them this Saturday. Well as for those that are married to them you have our prayers, may God give you grace to keep on being strong. Amen.
 Ladies, you might just have a rethink about your relationship after reading this post.


 As for you MR, you might not fall into any of these category but your friend might just be one or your sister about to marry one.  Don't be stingy just share this post to him/her as a new year gift (laughs).