Most questions I get from people everyday is "How do I get my relationship to work" ? And most times I answer with a smile on my face "DROP THE BAGGAGE".  (May be that would have been a better title for this post) . "JUST THINKING LOUD"


You know there are two types of people who are in relationships. 1. People who really want to be in relationships 2. People who just want people to know they are in a relationship too.

Will come to these categories of people in another post, this post is for  people who truly want to be in a relationship for all the right reasons. You know your reasons!

Relationships will work out just fine if we will  just drop the following attitudes

 1.  You want a relationship but never want to take risks.  No relationship will work without risk being involved. If you want to love you must be ready to take uncalculated risks.  How many people are ready for risks?

 2.  You want a relationship but you want to avoid pain. So who told you love doesn't hurt.  Pain must come in ever relationship you find yourself. See, love overcomes the hurt with forgiveness.  If you want a relationship be ready to forgive at all times.

 3.  You want a relationship but you want to keep all your secrets.  So you want a perfect relationship but want to keep a lot of secrets. Relationships work better when there is openness.

 4.  You want a relationship but you want to be right always.  If you're always right that means you never hurt someone so there is never a need to say sorry.  Yes, you must be ready to acknowledge that you are wrong sometimes. Being wrong in the sense that you yourself are not perfect and could sometimes hurt the other person.

 5.  You want to be in a relationship but don't want to lose your independence.

 6. You want to be in a relationship but you don’t want to compromise too much.  Life itself is full of reasons for us to compromise or bend your rules a little.

Now are you ready to drop some unnecessary things so you can love happily and cheerfully.

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