TO SNOOP OR NOT TO SNOOP
7:21 am
Good morning loves, how have you all been?
Thanks for visiting one more time today
I have heard a lot of people say It is wrong to snoop into your partners phone, emails and other personal informations. Some people say its cool and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I kind of have a difference way of looking at this snooping issue. Am a bit confused and need clarification from you all.
Am I snooping when I occasionally check his emails?
Am I really snooping when I check out his text messages or call history? Are we supposed to keep secrets?
Aren't we supposed to be open to one another?
So I throw the question over to you all, is it evil to snoop?
Does snooping hurt trust in relationships or marriage?
When will snooping be actually called snooping. Lol
I know this post is full of questions just need to hear from you all. Will share my own view on this with you all later.
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My comment will also be a question; can what you don't know hurt you?
ReplyDeleteThat's a deep question.. Hmmmm
DeleteWhat you don't know can hurt you.
DeletePheezycorner.blogspot.com
May I add this question... When you check his mails, text or phone history, what exactly are you searching for?
ReplyDeleteWill certainly be back here in the evening to learn from people's view. I have always wanted to do a post on this.
Obviously searching for reasons to trust him, maybe??
DeleteYou don't search for trust. You earn it! Beside if you don't trust him why go into it initially??
DeleteWhen i have nothing to hide,why should i be worried if my girl go through my phone, mail or text ? Personally i don't have problem with that once my hands are clean. But i'll add my personal experience on this issue later
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to read about your personal experience..
DeleteI guess it depends on the type of relationship it is. Once a partner breaches an initial trust, it becomes harder not to snoop around I think.
ReplyDeleteEspecially when it involved cheating.. It will make one suspicious of every move..
DeleteLol.. when you trust your partner and u share all necessary details. You wld only snoop to satisfy ur curiosity and after a while. You won't bother snooping around.
ReplyDeleteTrue, snooping has a life span..
DeleteWell it's a really complicated thing girl, it has it's pros and cons. I recently wrote on it so do check it out.
ReplyDeleteDivadiari.blogspot.com
Nice opinion on your blog.. Thanks for visiting..
DeleteAs I attempt to avoid questions that I believe are a personal choice, I will leave this comment. Perhaps the issue of a matter such as this should be discussed between the partners involved. Often times more than less, getting others opinions in regards to trust in relatuonships causes more confusion than clarity.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, deep and true...
DeleteSnooping will only give you heart attack.. Lol
ReplyDeleteckjacob.blogspot.com
Lol, some people will gladly have a heart attack snooping..
DeletePeople check their partner's device but when you are on a fact finding, it is called snooping.
ReplyDeletePersonally, I have never snooped and I don't like people checking my device, yes it is mine and no, I have nothing to hide.
Like bloggorati said, it's the motive that is the thing which in most cases is breach of trust.
I use to check my husband's phone because of my own insecurities. He is faithful to me and the children and is a very god man and father. I honestly think I was trying to find fault in him just because of how I was feeling at the time. I don't do that anymore and he says he has nothing to hide, and neither do I. So like Amaka mentioned we need to check our motives behind "snooping".
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