1. Enjoy being alone. How many of us have refused to go for an event because you have no one to go with? *raises hand*  

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 2. Discover your purpose. 

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When the purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable. You need to discover who you really are, what you are here for and what you are passionate about.


 3. Love yourself. The greatest love you can ever give or receive is the love you have for yourself. You cannot love truly except you love yourself first. Celebrate yourself always be comfortable in your own skin.

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 4. Close your legs. Any one who want to have a taste of your cookie should put a ring on it. Yes i said it! 'Put a ring on it'. No one has the right of passage except the ritual of marriage has been fulfilled.

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 5. Forget the past. I know this one might the difficult for you because he hurt you so badly. Forgive and move on dear. You are not a failure it was just a lesson. No matter what you have been through, Forgive.

 6. Make your self an asset. Don't you ever think of being a liability. You are an asset when you invest in yourself. Never stop learning, seize any opportunity you get to learn a skill.

 7. Stop trying to please everybody. I have not seen anyone who tried to please everybody and succeeded. See you can never please everybody, just focus on being a good person and leave the rest.

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 8. You are imperfect. The word perfect only exist in the dictionary. See we all have flaws. Don't be deceived by what everybody is trying to make you see.  There is no such thing as perfect figure, perfect man, perfect home, perfect job, perfect face etc. There no such thing anywhere on earth.

 9.  Make the right choice. Learn how to make the right choice for yourself. You are responsible for your decisions. Don't allow people to always make a choice for you.

10. Love God. This is supposed to be the first thing but I put it last for  a reason. It sums it all up. Love and serve your creator. Pour so much of your self in God so any man who wants you will have to go through him.