Most women go into relationships because they don't want to be seen as odd, weird, lonely. How about the men? I guess because they want to be seen as real men who can woo a woman and as one who is in charge.


So people just go into relationships for obviously the wrong reasons.

You need to ask yourself "why you want to get into that relationship?" or if you didn't ask that at the beginning then it should  "why you are in it already"?

As a Christian what I would proffer is a "Godly relationship",  one that has its foundations on the principles of God.
>not be unequally yoke with an unbeliever
>love like Christ love
>being chaste in the relationship


One can make a mistake at the very beginning of a decision but can choose not to remain in the realm of the mistake as they are discovered.

Whenever relationships are defined it creates a direction or focus and brings both parties to terms with what's is expected of them to sail the ship.

Are you in a relationship that doesn't have a direction?  You can remedy your situation now by taking this few steps:
1. Ask your partner what they really want from the ship that has set sail

2. Set principles that would help set the ship to the right destination.

3. Prayerfully get people you can be accountable to help during stormy weather's at sea.

4. Put the entire journey during the course of the ship into the hands of the Master of the sky and sea: Jesus Christ.

God bless you as you take the right steps to redefining how your relationship should be.