When i want to pretend like am serious. #Thelook

Happy new month to us all. In this month good and wonderful things will come our way and we will be blessed abundantly. Amen.


You will be wondering what kind of title this is lllooolllzzz. Ok let me give you gist *crosslegs*
You know my first hobby is speaking right! And my second hobby is blogging. Even from my blog name you will have a clue about my love for speaking. I have been speaking in conferences and events and professional, i am a teacher so you do the mathematics.

When i first sat down there, I was  nervous!!

I was invited to do a talk on radio last week on 'Abusive Relationships'. It was like a scar was been reopened. I just didn't want to feel vulnerable again. I rarely talk about my worst crush ever. I know how i have kept it under the carpet and forgiven my self and him. I now believe so much that every pain you go through is for a purpose.  Most times we find our purpose in life's worst events.  I knew i could relate so much to the topic. I was a teenage girl somewhere there before. I knew the struggle and how difficult it was to let go.
Abusive relationships are terrible. Most especially the emotional abuse. It actually took God's grace through prayers and study of Gods Word to have my self-esteem back. I remember crying my self to sleep in prayers telling God to renew my mind and shut down that memory. Will share my whole healing process in a new post later.

Selfie with  Lady B

The host of the show 'LADY B' is such a wonderful woman, she is passionate about her job and we had a wonderful time. She hosts the LOVE CIRCLE every Saturday by 8.00am on Vision Fm 92.1 Abuja.
She has a beautiful voice too.


I got emotional when we opened up the phone lines for questions, some of the calls we had made me see the need why we should keep educating people and build a strong support group for men and women who are going through such. Most of the callers were men. Most times we feel that it's only women that are victims of abuse but men too do have there own share. Most especially in the sexual, emotional and financial aspect.

Sign of victory..

Cooking up some projects already. By God's grace will let you in when am ready to start. I am strong today, someone needs to be strengthened too.
Let's all share love this week. Strengthen someone today, make the right choices today.


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