This post is specifically for you and I. In this post i will be saying ways which i know as a young person you can avoid heartbreaks.
1. Avoid too much expectations: Too much expectations i mean having this 'Le Boo can never do that attitude' . We just need to understand that perfect boo is also human and can make errors too! like duh! Just try a little bit to have this mind set that if its going to work its going to work and for it to work out you two need to make a collective effort . You could be in it 200% but Le Boo could just be marking time. Such is life dear.

3. Avoid premarital sex: I know so many people will be like 'whats that one now'!! When you really want to save your heart from unnecessary wahala stay away from premarital sex. Sex is a beautiful thing and God created it to be binding force between a man and a woman (Married). Permit me to say that sex has a way of blocking your sense of judgement. Am a firm believer of wait till the ring is on the finger!!. That does not mean that your heart cant still get broken just that the pain is not as heavy as when you have done all the positions with him/her and maybe an abortion.

4. Get a Life: The truth is so many of us make this silly mistake, so because you are in a relationship you no longer have a life. No friends, zero social life, distance from family and loved ones. Chai! *shakinghead* . A relationship is not a license to be a fool now. Everywhere you are Lee Boo is just around the cornyer, you no longer socialize its just you and Lee Boo. You eat, breath and sleep Lee Boo. All your friends are now potential Lee Boo snatchers. The truth is a good relationship is supposed to make you a better person not a worse person.



Anchor scripture: Proverbs 4:7

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