There are different ways conflicts that lead to a beautiful relationship or marriage breaking up. Conflicts are very natural in relationships but solving those conflicts seems to be the issue. Conflicts can either build up your relationship or it tears it down. It's a very powerful tool but as well dangerous. These are ways conflicts can hurt your happily ever after:

 1.  Trying to win every argument: Most times we want so hard to win in our conflict. We want to be given a golden medal maybe because we feel we deserve it. Its a relationship not an Olympics. It takes just more than being right to have it right.

 2.  Not apologizing: I know sometimes you could feel its absolutely not your place to offer an apology. Even when you are not wrong. Apologizing isn't a sign of weakness as it is seen as. Its a sign that you are ready to move past the situation.

 3.  Not forgiving: In conflicts it's important we learn to forgive and also let go. Holding on to what he said or she said  during arguments or conflicts wouldn't help. Forgive quickly and move on.

 4.  Stonewalling: This is the mother of all break ups in relationships. You just don't talk too much about it, you say its fine, you say you have forgiven but deep down you know its not okay. You just behave like there are so many walls around you that needs to be broken before things will get better again. You want the other partner to pay, its almost like a revenge strategy.

 5.  Attacking the person not the behavior: Most times in conflict situations we are so emotional or angry or trying so hard to prove a point that we begin to attack the person and not the act. Its always important you watch out for that trait in your conflicting situations because if not checked it could cause you to part ways.

So friends what ways do you think conflicts can destroy relationships?